Conflict avoidance in organizations

Joe HudsonExecutive coach and founder of Art of Accomplishment, former venture capitalist who coaches founders and researchers at companies including OpenAI

• Hudson argues the CEO's happiness is the correct measure of a company's direction and would be his criterion when investing.

  “If the CEO is happy with the way the company is going, the company is going the way it should be going”

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• Hudson recommends asking employees to bring a plan rather than prescribing the solution, calling the latter disempowering and another form of self-reliance.

  “hey, sales are off, I need a plan, please present it to me tomorrow about how we're going to get sales back on track, that's a far more powerful way to do it”

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• Hudson says he measures organizational health by only two metrics: how quickly hard conversations happen and how quickly they resolve.

  “If I go in and monitor a company's health, I literally just use two metrics. How quickly do they have the hard conversation and how quickly do they resolve it?”

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• Hudson frames conflict as a signal pointing to where a system can be made more efficient, so avoiding it means forgoing improvement.

  “conflict is the place where efficiency can be gained, whether it's in a marriage or in a business or between business partners”

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