Controlling behavior in relationships

Madison said she and friends concluded that men typically reveal toxicity within three to six months, so she is cautious early on.

“how long does it take for a guy to show his toxicity? Because they always act real cool in the beginning. We decided it's usually three to six months”

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Madison said a later relationship that mirrored the Playboy one showed her that controlling behavior is a pattern not limited to powerful men.

“This isn't just anomaly behavior because this man was in a position. This is something that any man can do if he wants to”

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Madison said insecurity drives controlling men, including Hefner despite his success.

“Insecurity. Like you would look at someone like him and think he has no reason to be insecure”

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Madison said that in hindsight Hefner encouraged conflict among his girlfriends as a divide-and-conquer tactic.

“looking back I feel like he kind of like encouraged that and kind of it's like you keep people it's like divide and conquer”

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Marquardt said Hefner feared being alone to the point of discouraging his girlfriends from going home for the holidays.

“not even just dying alone but just being alone at all like if somebody he didn't even want to let us to go home for the holidays”

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