What Jay Shetty has said about Gottman research on bids for connection
1 quote · 1 episode · Oct 7, 2026
Jay Shetty, British author, podcast host and former monk who hosts On Purpose, has been quoted on Gottman research on bids for connection once in 1 episode of On Purpose with Jay Shetty, most recently on October 7, 2026. Each quote below is verbatim and links to the moment it was said.
In their words
Shetty cites Gottman research finding that couples with a 33% response rate to bids tend toward divorce, while those at 88% tend to last.
“if your partner's response rate is 33%, you're likely to get to a divorce. And if it's 88%, you're likely to have a long-term marriage”
On Purpose with Jay Shetty: Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want You (Oct 7, 2026) · Listen from 21:13
Episodes
Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want YouOn Purpose with Jay Shetty · Oct 7, 2026 · 1 h 26 min
Jay Shetty talks with relationship coach Sabrina Zohar about how childhood attachment shapes dating patterns, boundaries versus walls, anxious-avoidant dynamics, and chasing unavailable people.
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