Gottman research on bids for connection
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Gottman research on bids for connection has come up in 1 episode across 1 podcast in TMT, including On Purpose with Jay Shetty. 1 person has made recorded remarks about it.
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Jay ShettyBritish author, podcast host and former monk who hosts On Purpose
Shetty cites Gottman research finding that couples with a 33% response rate to bids tend toward divorce, while those at 88% tend to last.
“if your partner's response rate is 33%, you're likely to get to a divorce. And if it's 88%, you're likely to have a long-term marriage”
On Purpose with Jay Shetty: Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want You (Oct 7, 2026) · Listen from 21:13
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Sabrina Zohar: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Want YouOn Purpose with Jay Shetty · Oct 7, 2026 · 1 h 26 min
Jay Shetty talks with relationship coach Sabrina Zohar about how childhood attachment shapes dating patterns, boundaries versus walls, anxious-avoidant dynamics, and chasing unavailable people.