Rupert Spira

Spira admits he himself long believed enlightenment was a marvelous experience to be attained after decades of practice.

“I had this misunderstanding for years that enlightenment is some marvelous, extraordinary experience”

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Spira calls enlightenment perhaps the most misunderstood word in spiritual literature and says it is not an experience at all.

“I think the word enlightenment is one of the most, if not the most misunderstood word in the entire spiritual literature”

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Spira defines enlightenment as the recognition of the nature of being, preceded by the step of unblending from experience.

“The next step is to recognize the nature. of the awareness that I am. It's inherently fulfilled. It's peaceful. It's ever present. It has no limits”

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Spira contends that if those waging wars truly felt they shared being with those they attack, war would be impossible.

“Imagine if the perpetrators of these wars knew, not just knew, but felt that they shared their being, that they were one”

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Spira argues that traditions developed progressive paths because some people's trauma, shame, or sorrow is too intense to turn away from directly.

“For some people, for instance, their trauma, their shame, their fear, their sorrow is so intense that they just can't get through it”

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Spira explains that the direct path goes straight from whatever one is experiencing back to one's being, though not everyone can do this.

“the direct path means exactly what you referred to, Jonathan, just that it's you go directly. from whatever you're experiencing straight back to your being”

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Spira argues that disagreements occur between minds, not beings, and need not become conflict when negotiated from shared being.

“Disagreements are always between minds. Two beings never disagree. The being never disagrees with anything”

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Spira defines love as the felt recognition of shared being and argues it transforms arguments between partners.

“That's what love is, the felt recognition that we are one, that we share our being”

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Spira argues that nothing new is ever created or destroyed, so one is never truly born and never dies.

“So nothing is ever created. And by the same token, nothing is ever destroyed. You never die. You were never born”

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Spira says there is legitimacy to the idea that the soul outlives the body and may reincarnate, while noting this is belief rather than experience.

“So I think there is legitimacy to the idea that the soul outlives the body and possibly reincarnates”

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Spira holds that consciousness does not evolve, though the mind does, comparing it to an unchanging screen.

“The content of the movie evolves, but the screen doesn't. It's the same. Consciousness doesn't evolve”

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Spira characterizes dogmatic religious certainty as a refinement of materialism with potentially worse consequences.

“It's just a refinement of materialism. It's materialism with a religious name”

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Spira calls the belief that consciousness is generated by matter madness and suggests it underlies the world's conflict.

“that is far out it's madness it's like believing that waves generate oceans and movies generate screens”

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Spira argues synchronicities happen too often to be coincidence and are explained by a model placing consciousness as fundamental.

“Under the prevailing materialist paradigm, these kinds of events shouldn't happen. Or if they did, they would be explained by coincidence alone”

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Spira says each return to being weakens the pull of objective experience until one feels one lives there.

“each time you go back to your being, the capacity that you're objective experience has to take you away from your being weakens”

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