Greg Adams
Dating coach and content creator known as Coach Greg Adams, promoter of the "free agent lifestyle"
Greg Adams (Dating coach and content creator known as Coach Greg Adams, promoter of the "free agent lifestyle") has appeared as a guest on 1 episode in TMT. Topics they speak about most include Marriage and long-term partnership, Child support in the United States, Passport bros.
In their words
Positions and remarks grouped by topic, each with the exact quote and where it was said.
Marriage and long-term partnership
Adams says he avoids remarriage to avoid divorce and custody disputes late in life.
“I don't want to be getting divorced at 60 and going through split custody and having custody arrangements with my kids mid 60s”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 57:07
Adams claims home remodeling increases the likelihood of divorce.
“If you remodel a house, you have a high chance of increasing your chance of divorce”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 26:01
Adams applies the law of diminishing returns to relationships, arguing their value declines past a certain point.
“most people don't recognize when this point is, is a point of no return. The returns start to decrease the longer you stay in it”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 19:00
Adams claims most people in the 1980s and 1990s were married by their mid-twenties.
“I would say in the 80s and 90s, 70, 80 percent of people were married by 24, 25”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 8:23
Child support in the United States
Adams claims state child support officials are motivated by federal matching funds rather than families' welfare.
“Their job is to get matching funds from the federal government. so that they can get billions of dollars built into the state system”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 55:18
Adams argues recipients often treat child support as general income so the child does not benefit.
“Unfortunately, they budget child support as income. And that's when the child doesn't get the money”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 54:21
Adams recounts his ex pursuing retroactive child support after his social media income increased.
“because my kids were minors all the way through up until 2024, she still was coming after me because of my increase in social media”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 53:17
Adams calls California the worst place for child support and says he paid it there himself.
“Worst place you can have child support. Worst by far. I was on child support in California”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 53:06
Other remarks
Adams says the United States remains the best country for ambitious people to make money, which keeps him partly based there.
“It's the best country to live in if you want to make more money, you know, if you're ambitious”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 57:47
Adams recommends meeting women through social circles because reputations there make women easier to vet.
“These are the best place to meet women because you can vet them and she has something on the line to lose if she lies”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 46:23
Adams argues that society removed physical violence and bullying but replaced them with manipulation.
“So what what we've done is remove violence and bullying, but we replace it with sign language manipulation”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 28:12
Passport bros
Adams argues men travel to Southeast Asia to experience femininity they feel is missing at home.
“not to take advantage of the girls, but to experience something that they miss, which is femininity”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 14:16
Adams says being a passport bro requires significant money.
“man has the ability to become a passport bro. He needs some money. He needs some money, right? Because passport bros aren't traveling for free”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 10:20
Adams ranks Brazil first and the Philippines second among the countries where he has dated.
“the women in general in terms of the quality and the way you can get along with them Brazil's number one and I would say Philippines would be number two”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 1:25
Online dating
Adams argues women avoid initiating conversations with men to preserve leverage.
“Women know that if they initiate conversations with men, they lost leverage”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 31:16
Adams says the 80/20 pattern holds online, while offline it is closer to 70/30.
“It's probably more like 70-30. But if you just take online, Instagram, TikTok, online dating apps, it's definitely 80-20”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 7:03
COVID-19 lockdowns
Adams says Gen Z's COVID-era online schooling and gaming meant they dated less in person.
“So I found that that generation of people didn't go out and date as much”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 50:22
Hookup culture
Adams argues widespread hookup culture is bad for society.
“It's not good for society to have people constantly hooking up as long as they can because women are going to win that game”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 47:23
Infidelity
Adams claims almost all women cheat in some form, including through social media attention, as a mating strategy.
“So almost all women are cheating in some form or fashion because that's their mating strategy. So in essence, they'll match”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 36:25
Crisis of boys and young men
Adams argues that men who passively wait for the dating landscape to change, which he calls the hope strategy, will be permanently isolated.
“These men are going to be completely isolated from the dating marketplace for good because they're hoping and I call it the hope strategy”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 6:25
Manosphere
Adams argues the red-pill space is oversaturated and its mainstream figures have been widely discredited.
“But it's been oversaturated. The talking points are pretty much been overused at this point. And most of the characters that have become mainstream”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 5:11
Divorce in the Philippines
Adams expects the Philippines will eventually legalize divorce.
“they don't believe in the divorce yet, but I do think it's coming around in due time because people will take advantage of that”
Digital Social Hour: Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035 (Jun 26, 2026) · Listen from 3:24
Appearances
Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035Digital Social Hour · Jun 26, 2026 · 57 min
Sean Kelly talks with dating coach Greg Adams about the manosphere, dating apps, passport bros, cheating, Gen Z dating, child support and his "free agent lifestyle."
Often appears with
- Sean Kelly · 1 shared episode