Child support in the United States

Adams claims state child support officials are motivated by federal matching funds rather than families' welfare.

“Their job is to get matching funds from the federal government. so that they can get billions of dollars built into the state system”

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Adams argues recipients often treat child support as general income so the child does not benefit.

“Unfortunately, they budget child support as income. And that's when the child doesn't get the money”

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Adams recounts his ex pursuing retroactive child support after his social media income increased.

“because my kids were minors all the way through up until 2024, she still was coming after me because of my increase in social media”

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Adams calls California the worst place for child support and says he paid it there himself.

“Worst place you can have child support. Worst by far. I was on child support in California”

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Kelly says he grew up under child support and does not believe his mother spent the full amount on him.

“Cause I grew up under child support. I don't think, I mean, my mom watches every episode, but I'll say this to her face”

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