Rainn Wilson

Wilson framed the cost of therapy as a long-term investment that can yield confidence and well-being after several years.

“if you look at it as a long-term investment, if three to five years later, all of a sudden you have renewed confidence and belief in yourself and well-being and an open mind”

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Wilson attributed resistance to therapy to fear and denial, and to a dislike of being confronted about one's patterns.

“Fear and denial. I think that they're afraid to face challenges that they might be having. And I think they're in denial about challenges”

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Wilson argued that people's resistance to devoting fifty minutes a week to therapy is irrational given the potential benefits.

“Why would you not take 50 of these 60-second minutes, 50 of them, that's all, to therapy? To deepen yourself, to learn how to break patterns, to process trauma”

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Wilson said he started therapy at 23 or 24 while depressed and using drugs, paying $5 a session under an NYU student plan.

“I was doing a lot of drugs and I couldn't get out of bed in the morning and I fortunately I was still under the covered under the NYU plan so I paid like $5 to go to a therapist”

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Wilson said audiences expect him to behave like Dwight Schrute and unfollow him when he tweets about vaccines or climate change.

“People want me to be Dwight. That's what I mean. They want me to act like Dwight”

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Wilson said he decided early in his career to embrace playing alienated misfits rather than pretend to be something else.

“I'm not gonna pretend to be something that I'm not. And I'm just, I'm gonna play misfits. That's who I am. I'm gonna play alienated misfits and I'm gonna be damn good at it”

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Wilson argued that the label 'character actor' has become limiting in contemporary Hollywood compared with earlier eras.

“back in the day, you could be a character actor that was playing incredible lead, juicy, amazing roles. And now character actor, you're relegated to like the sixth lead”

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Wilson criticized celebrities who claim to have been nerds in high school, citing a humiliating prank banner after his chess team won a state tournament.

“The Glee Club, Pep Club made it as a joke. So fuck you, Charlize Theron. And Jennifer Aniston and everyone is like, oh, give me a fucking break. You have no idea”

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Wilson described consciously observing other children's social interactions because he had not learned ordinary social cues at home.

“So I felt a little bit like an alien in suburban Seattle that was like observing humans to see like, what do homo sapiens do and how do I fit in?”

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Wilson said his upbringing as an only child of unhappily married Baha'i parents created conditions for dysfunction.

“So Baha'i, only child, and they didn't love each other. So that was also, you know, weird. So it was this weird, it's a petri dish for total dysfunction”

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Wilson described a spiritual perspective in which humans are eternal souls temporarily inhabiting bodies.

“There's an eternal aspect to us, and we're riding around in flesh suits for a limited amount of time”

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Wilson said he had rejected the Baha'i faith of his youth and later returned to it, finding tools in prayer, meditation and service to others.

“I had rejected the Baha'i faith of my youth. And I write about this in my book, The Bassoon King, about my journey kind of coming back to faith”

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Wilson said he meditates about fifteen minutes daily and that meditation need not involve apps or mantras.

“I do. I meditate every day. I keep it very simple. It's about 15 minutes and it's just about quieting the mind”

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Wilson said a recovery journey, a spiritual journey and a human journey are the same process of becoming one's best self through work.

“A recovery journey is the same as a spiritual journey. And frankly, it's a human journey. And that is to make ourselves the best possible version of ourselves over the course of our lives”

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Wilson recommended that non-addicts attend 12-step meetings as a way to form deep friendships in a society where connection is hard.

“in fact, folks listening at home, maybe you're not even addicted, hit a 12 Step meeting just to get to know people and to share your heart and share on a deeper level”

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Wilson said his childhood dysfunction led to acute anxiety disorder, panic attacks, depression and addiction in his twenties.

“I was suffering from acute anxiety disorder. I would have Panic attacks all the time and, you know, suffered from depression and addiction issues”

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Wilson said his childhood sense of being unloved produced anxiety and depression, and that his reading of science fiction was rooted in loneliness.

“in reality, it was because I was lonely and depressed and sitting in my room and not socializing and just reading science fiction books”

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