Personal accountability

Gemelli names overcoming adversity, accountability and refusing to take no for an answer as the keys to success.

“the real way to teach people to be successful is to know how to overcome adversity, to have accountability, and to never be willing to take no for an answer”

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Gemelli rejects the idea that he overcame prison, saying he caused it and only got through it.

“I didn't overcome shit. I caused it. You can't say I overcome something I caused. I got through it”

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Gemelli argues that blaming factors like gender or race is a built-in excuse for personal failure.

“When you live with built-in excuses, it's my gender, it's my race, it's this, it's this. No, no, fucker, it's not”

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White says he quit drinking at 21 because he believed alcohol would stop him achieving his goals.

“I quit drinking when I was 21. I believe that I wouldn't be able to accomplish all the things that I wanted to accomplish if I was drinking”

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White says he refuses to dwell on the past and that yesterday has no bearing on today.

“Fuck the rearview mirror. It doesn't matter. Whatever happened yesterday means nothing today”

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Robbins recounts realizing at 41 that nobody was coming to rescue her from her financial hole.

“Actually, it was 41 when I woke up and realized nobody is coming to save my ass from this mess that I'm in”

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Robbins says the point at which one stops blaming parents is not an age but the moment one decides to pay for one's own life.

“Well, I wouldn't say it's an age. I say it's the moment you decide to pay for your life”

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McGraw advises young artists that a long career requires taking ownership rather than coasting.

“if you just coast you might have a career for a little while but if you want a long career you're going to have to take charge and ownership of it”

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McGraw says songs he was talked into against his instincts have never succeeded for him.

“any time that I've let somebody else talk me into a song, whether it be a record label hit or somebody else, talk me into a song that I knew wasn't right for me, it's never worked”

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Rush says his guiding principle, which he tells others, is never to become complacent.

“I will never become complacent. And that's what I tell people all the time. Never become complacent”

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Bartlett argues White's story matters because it shows people can move past a difficult upbringing.

“hearing someone that went through, in my view, an objectively very tumultuous, very difficult upbringing and has been able to separate themselves from it and look forward”

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Vaynerchuk attributes widespread status-seeking to modern parenting leaving out accountability rather than to social media.

“not because of social media and we see other people with stuff, but because modern parenting left accountability out of the ingredients of the last 30, 40 years”

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Crews argues that people get what they actually want, and that repeated lateness reveals a lack of real desire.

“I discovered for a long time, if I show up late for something twice, I don't want it”

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